The Attractive Things Men Do Without Realizing, According to the Internet [Video]

A simple question has sparked a huge conversation on Reddit whereby many users have flocked to the comments to describe the subtle traits that make a man desirable.

The post titled, “What minor things are very attractive on men, but they never seem to realize it?” has received 7,000 upvotes since it was shared on August 22. Along with 3,000 comments, many of which indicate that attractiveness doesn’t always mean looks. In fact, for most users, it is qualities like kindness and attentiveness.

Newsweek discussed the u/FrighteninglyClassy’s post with Charlotte Ball, a dating expert based in London. She explained via email why personality traits outweigh physical appearance, for many women.

“For this reason, women pay more attention to smaller details, looking beyond the surface and pure physical attraction,” said Ball, the founder of Bond the Agency, a matchmaking company, adding: “It is absolutely true that women have an inherent understanding that it is often the case that the more you get …