Polyamorous influencer breakups: What happens when hypervisible relationships end [Video]

The popularity of polyamory and other non-monogamy has been on the rise in recent years, with some experts citing the first Trump election and COVID-19 for challenging sexual and romantic norms. Regardless of the reasons why, dating apps and search engine trends tell us that non-monogamy is on our minds. 

For individuals known online by tens of thousands of people for being polyamorous, there can be some unique challenges to their relationships — especially when they end. Social media can be a blessing for any minority community, many of whom are desperate to see themselves represented and to find opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals. But for those in the spotlight, their public persona adds a singular element to heartbreak.

Social media followers “want to know everything” 

“Some people have a weird entitlement towards content creators,” says Michelle Hy (@PolyamorousWhileAsian), a Portland-based polyamory content creator. “I’ve kept pretty good boundaries and rules when I post about a breakup or de-escalation — …